Men, getting ready to date - and marry - a godly woman requires a biblical, practical plan.

Watch the video above to find out why I decided to create a course that helps Christian guys know they're ready to date, lead and marry a godly woman. And, avoid all the heartache that comes with just hoping it'll all work out.

Paul Miller

Trading junk food for steak

Bryan Stoudt's course, "How To Prepare for Marriage" pulls young men away from the junk food that the church so often offers and gives them the thick steak of a disciplined, courageous life grounded in the gospel and Scripture. I highly recommend this course.

paul e. miller // Author of A Praying Life & J-Curve: Dying and Rising with Jesus in Everyday Life

Dave Harvey

Do your upcoming marriage a big favor

I seriously wish this course was around when Kimm and I tied the knot 38 years ago, but I’m glad it’s available to you now. Do your upcoming marriage a big favor and enroll today! Let Bryan guide you through this biblical, practical course.

dave harvey  //  Author Of When Sinners Say I Do & I Still Do // RevDaveHarvey.Com

The Usual Way Christian Guys Get Ready For Dating & Marriage Doesn't Work

Are you taking the 'it'll all work out' approach?

Most Christian guys want to marry a godly woman someday. If you're reading this, you're probably one of them. 😉

You dream about what it would be like to live life with a woman who shares your commitment to Christ. Someone you can encourage to pursue him. Someone who will challenge you to do the same. 

You think about what it would be like to serve your neighbors and a world in need. To enjoy hobbies and common interests together. To raise a family that honors God. And - let's be honest - be physically intimate with. 

All of these are good, legitimate desires that honor God when they're pursued with love for him and others.

A godly wife and great marriage are some of God's greatest gifts this side of heaven. 

As Proverbs puts it, 'An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.' (31:10-11)

Going to church + doing your devotions + wishful thinking = bad idea.

But, too often Christian guys think getting ready for dating and marriage will 'just happen'. That they can just go to church, do their devotions and - somehow - when the time is right, they'll meet 'The One', get married, and live happily ever after. [Dance music plays as champagne sprays, and confetti falls all around you.]

I'm not questioning their motives. Or the value of faithfully attending church or doing devotions. These are all important, even essential, parts of what it means to follow Jesus. 

But they are not (nearly) enough to prepare you for dating or marriage. 

You don't have to start from square one like I did.

I found this out the hard way when I started dating my wife, Sharon. 

In the past, we had a great friendship. We were able to talk for hours about everything. We had an amazing chemistry. We both loved the Lord and serving others.

It was all so easy, so I figured that would just continue after we started dating. I mean, why wouldn't it?

But I was wrong. I was unprepared, and I hadn't even known it. 

It took me (and my wife) 3 really challenging years of marriage - and lots of biblical counseling - to turn things around. And, with God's amazing grace and patience, we did. 

It's far from perfect, but today people tell us we have a great marriage. And we have the privilege of providing premarital and marriage counseling and coaching to lots of young couples. Couples that continue to thrive well after their wedding.

But many other couples don't fare so well. In fact, with just a little effort, I thought of over 30 other Christian marriages I know personally that didn't make it. 

I don't want that for you! I want to give you a huge head start by sharing what God has taught me. (Often the hard way.) And, what has worked well for guys I've had the privilege of mentoring in 20 years of ministry.

The bottom line: you're probably far less prepared for dating, and a godly, healthy marriage, than you think. That's where How To Prepare For Marriage comes in.

How To Prepare For Marriage: A Solid, Biblical Approach.

The How To Prepare For Marriage online course is divided into 4 main modules of content (26 video lessons), with a worksheet for each lesson. 


Module 1: Pursue God Above All Else

This module will show you why pursuing God - and the gospel - first is absolutely critical and how to practically do it so that you pursue dating on a Rock Solid foundation: God Himself.


Module 2: Become A Godly Man

There's so much confusion today about what it means to be a man. Let alone a godly man. This module will provide a clear definition of biblical manhood, identify its 3 key responsibilities, and show you how to live them out. 


Module 3: Engage In Biblical Community

Engaging in biblical community is the best way to prepare for the smaller community of marriage. This module explores why community is essential, 2 places we must pursue it, and how to overcome 5 common obstacles that get in our way. 


Module 4: Overcome Sexual Sin & Pursue Purity

This module will explore the massive problem of sexual sin, put our sexuality in its bigger biblical context, and show you how to experience lasting victory in this all-important area. Plus, how to view godly women as our sisters created in God's image, rather than as objects or 'potentials'.

Hi, I'm Bryan.

Bryan Stoudt is a pastor, certified coach and blogger. Over twenty years of ministry, he has focused on mentoring and discipling younger men, in addition to couples counseling with his wife, Sharon.

He has a blog helping Christians pursue Christ, and prepare for - and enjoy - marriages that glorify God, serve others, and bring them joy. He has written for several other sites, including Desiring God.

This course hits on a serious foundational epidemic that is taking place with guys of my generation (and beyond). I love the module on lust and pursuing purity, and how it sets out actionable steps in an objective manner. 

mike frascello

I am really impressed with this course. It has all the content a single guy needs. I especially liked how it shows that God is the supreme source of our happiness and satisfaction, and the section on how we view women was eye-opening for me.

Joshua vettel 

Preparing to be a husband, and having a healthy spiritual life, is no simple feat. The work you are doing here is going to help a lot of good men become great men.

Caeden Goering

Here's What You Get When You Buy The            How To Prepare For Marriage Course

How To Prepare For Marriage is an online course. After your purchase, you will be able to log onto an online dashboard, where you can access the course material, which consists of:

Video Lessons

With over 25 video lessons, you'll cover the four key pillars of preparing successfully for dating and a healthy, godly marriage.


The worksheets help you connect the lessons with your life so that you actually make progress.

Interaction With Me

Get feedback specific to the challenges and ideas that come up for you as you go throughout the course.

So, What Does It Cost?

During this special introductory period, you can get it at a discount for the prices below. There's a 30-day money-back guarantee, too, so you can try it out risk-free.

course only
  • 26 video lessons
  • worksheets for each lesson
  • interaction with me and other course members


course + 1 coaching session
  • everything from 'course only'
  • plus,  1 private, 45-minute coaching session with me


  • everything from 'course only' 
  • plus, 4 private, 45-minute coaching sessions with me

Go deeper for serious transformation!


Get instant access to How To Prepare For Marriage now!

Getting ready for dating, and a great marriage, is a journey, not an event. Sign up for How To Prepare For Marriage today, and give yourself a huge head start!

Secure Checkout

What How To Prepare For Marriage

Is - And Is Not

I want to set the right expectations for this course so you're not disappointed. How To Prepare For Marriage is not your usual, run-of-the-mill online course.

This course is NOT...

  • A quick fix or silver bullet. Getting ready to date, and marry, a godly woman is not a formula, checklist, or bunch of easy-to-follow steps or secrets. 
  • A passive, information download. Getting real value from the course requires watching the videos, but also engaging with the Lord as you do the worksheets.
  • A course on dating, premarital counseling or marriage. This course isn't about how to date, and doesn't cover things like online dating , or, setting physical boundaries with your girlfriend. It's also not for guys who are already engaged or married. 

This course IS...

  • All about biblical, foundational principles and practical action steps.  This course covers solid biblical principles and practical actions you take with the Lord and other believers. Over time, they will get you ready to date - and marry - a godly woman. 
  • An interactive journey that will require hard work and transform you. If you lean on the Lord and put in serious (not perfect) effort, you will be a different, more godly man by the end. You will be ready to date, and eventually marry, a godly woman.
  • A course on how to GET READY to date, and marry, a godly woman. This course is laser-focused on helping you, as a Christian man, become the kind of guy who is ready to date, lead and marry a godly woman. It's for any Christian guy who's single or currently in a dating relationship.

The Bottom-line

If you're a Christian guy who...

  • is single or in a dating relationship 
  • wants to get ready to date, lead and marry a godly woman, and
  • willing to trust in Christ and put in the hard work

... this course is for you!

Frequently Asked Questions

How long will I have access to the course?

How can I get in touch with you about questions that come up?

I'm not from the West. Will this course be relevant for me?

What does it mean that you're a 'coach'?

Is there a money back guarantee?

What can I expect from you in a coaching session?

Is this course a good fit for me?

start your journey toward healthy dating relationships & marriage today

© Copyright. Bryan Stoudt. 2023. All rights reserved. | Disclaimer | Privacy Policy