When it comes to dating, lots of Christian guys wonder about the role physical appearance and godly character should play in who they decide to pursue. In other words, do looks matter? More specifically, they ask if it’s wise to pursue a godly woman they do not find physically attractive in the hopes that they will develop […]
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Welcome back, everyone. We’re in the middle of a series where we’re talking about encouraging real change in our lives and relationships. In the first post, I asked you to choose one struggle specific to you and your relationship with your boy/girlfriend, fiance(e) or spouse. (If you’re single, choose someone you’re close with. The process […]
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When it comes to the New Year and resolutions, most of us have two responses:Get excited, take on the world, and make 50 resolutions.Get cynical, and do nothing.Other times, we wind up taking a hybrid approach. We start out strong, fail, get discouraged and then impersonate our pet taking a nap for the rest of […]
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As we race toward the New Year, it’s worth pausing for a moment and reflecting on the old one. Personally, I’m taking the next few weeks to pray through, and set, a few goals for the coming year. But I’m also unplugging and asking what I learned from this past Advent and Christmas. We can […]
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Advent is a time of reflection. On what God did in sending Jesus the first time, and, longing for what He will do when Jesus comes again. In all honesty, I’ve found my reflection, and prayerful waiting tends to be pretty vague. I spend a few minutes reading part of ‘the Christmas story’ from Luke […]
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All of a sudden, Advent (Latin ‘coming’ or ‘arriving’) is here. And although we celebrate Christ’s coming, we also remember that we are waiting. Kids wait for gifts on Christmas morning. Big kids (like us) wait for time off at the end of the year, and time to reflect. And all of us wait for […]
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So, you’d like to get married. You’ve heard that premarital counseling during your engagement is a good idea. And it is: couples that pursue premarital counseling have a 30% higher success rate and avoid the most common marriage problems. But not all pre-marriage counseling is created equally. There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding it, and many […]
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“Anyone who believes that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach flunked geography.” – Author Robert Byrne So today we’re going to talk about something really important to us men. Sex. More specifically, why your wife doesn’t want sex with you. In fact, research shows clearly what the quote above suggests indirectly: that sex is the […]
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As you reflect on Christian marriage, what one piece of advice would you have given yourself on your wedding day for lasting joy and success? Anyone who’s been married for more than a few months knows it’s both awesome – and really hard – all at once.My wife and I have the privilege of coaching and […]
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Can you remember when you first heard about the Coronavirus, and how you felt about it? To be honest, I can’t remember much because I thought it would never really affect me. I felt badly for the people going through it, but never truly believed an epidemic in a remote region of China would completely change the way […]
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